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How do you draw names for Secret Santa online?

Updated 4 min readBy the Rimbi team

In short

To draw names for Secret Santa online, add the participants, add any exclusions, then run the draw: the tool gives each person someone to buy for, nobody lands on their own name, and everyone sees their result privately, by email, by text or in an app. Nobody, not even the organizer, needs to see anyone else’s draw.

Inviting someone without the app: their name and number, and they get a link by text or emailGuests without the app, by text or email
Contents
  1. The 5 steps
  2. Exclusions
  3. No email needed
  4. Keeping the secret
  5. After the draw
  6. Frequently asked questions
  7. More guides

Draw names online in 5 steps

  1. Create the draw

    Give it a name, then pick the exchange date, the budget and, if you like, the day and time of the draw. In Rimbi, the draw then runs on its own at the scheduled time.

  2. Add the participants

    Type in their names, or share a link or a code so everyone joins on their own. An email address isn’t required: a phone number is enough.

  3. Add exclusions

    Say who shouldn’t draw whom: couples, two siblings, or people who had each other last year. You can also rule out two-way draws.

  4. Choose how people find out

    By email, by text, in the app, or on a single phone passed around the table.

  5. Run the draw

    Each person only gets the name of the person they’re buying for. In Rimbi, the draw is checked before it runs: if your rules make it impossible, you know right away.

The draw rules in Rimbi: budget, number of people to buy for, no repeats, checked drawParty mode: add names, then pass the phone aroundThe organizer dashboard: everything in order, draws seen, reminders
In the Rimbi app: set exclusions and the budget, draw on a single phone in party mode, then follow the draw without seeing who gives to whom.

Exclusions: keep couples apart, avoid repeats

An exclusion stops one person from drawing another. It’s the most requested rule, so couples don’t end up buying for each other. The most useful rules:

The most common name draw rules
RuleWhat it preventsExample
ExclusionTwo people drawing each otherLéa and Tom, a couple, don’t draw each other
No two-way drawsTwo people buying for each otherIf Inès buys for Hugo, Hugo doesn’t buy for Inès
No repeatsGetting the same person year after yearTom doesn’t get Grandma Jo again after buying for her last year
No drawing yourselfLanding on your own nameAlways applied

Don’t overdo it: with many exclusions in a small group, no draw can satisfy every rule. Rimbi checks that the draw is still possible before running it, and by default avoids repeating any pairing from the last three years.

Run your Secret Santa with Rimbi

Name draw with exclusions, guests without the app by text or email, wish lists and group gifts. Free for up to 20 people, no ads.

Coming soon to iPhone and Android

No email: by text, on WhatsApp or on one phone

Many tools ask for every participant’s email address. You don’t actually need it:

Ways to tell each participant who they drew
MethodWhat you needGood to know
EmailEveryone’s addressThe message can end up in spam
Text messageEveryone’s numberHandy for people who rarely check email
Link on WhatsApp or MessengerA group chatThe link is for joining the draw; results stay private, never in the chat
AppThe app installedAnimated draw, reminders and wish lists
One phoneEveryone in the same roomThe phone goes around; each person sees their name out of sight of the others

In Rimbi, the organizer can send a guest a personal link by text or email, valid for 7 days: the guest sees who they drew and that person’s wish list, with nothing to install. For a whole group, a link or a code can be shared on WhatsApp, Messenger or by text.

Keeping the secret, even from the organizer

A good online draw only shows each person their own result. So the organizer can play like everyone else, without knowing who gives to whom. Three habits that keep the secret safe:

  • Never post the results in the group chat: everyone sees their name privately.
  • If someone forgets who they drew, they can find it again in the app or with their link, without asking the organizer.
  • To ask the person you’re buying for a question (their size, their tastes), use an anonymous message rather than a chatty relative.

Adding or removing someone after the draw

A latecomer or a dropout doesn’t ruin the whole draw. Two options:

  • Redo the draw. It’s simple, but everyone has to find out their new name, and some may have already bought a gift.
  • Adjust it discreetly. In Rimbi, only one person’s draw changes, and the organizer doesn’t know whose. Everyone else keeps theirs.

Frequently asked questions

Is an online name draw really random?

Yes. The computer draws names at random, following only the rules the group set: exclusions, no two-way draws, no repeats. Nobody picks who gets whom.

Can you draw names for Secret Santa for free?

Yes. Rimbi is free for one group of up to 20 people, kids included, with every feature. Guests never pay.

Do you need everyone’s email address?

No. A phone number is enough to send the link by text, and a link or code shared on WhatsApp lets everyone join the draw on their own.

What if the draw is impossible?

It means there are too many exclusions for the size of the group. Remove an exclusion, allow two-way draws or add a participant. Rimbi checks this before running the draw.

Can you see who drew whom?

Not during the game: each person only sees their own draw, organizer included. At the end, the organizer can plan a reveal: everyone finds out who their Secret Santa was, or the whole gift chain is shown.

Coming soon to iPhone and Android

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